I am a nurse
and parent volunteer for
Raising Special
Kids. I
have 3
beautiful children; one
child has "special needs", and another struggles
with Systemic Juvenile Rheumatoid
Arthritis
(JRA). Our family has encountered many challenges along the way,
yet we
are grateful for the abundance of support and choices that the community has
afforded us. My daughters serve as the inspiration for this nonprofit
website.
My goal is to
help educate and support families having children
with "special needs" especially targeting kids under the age of 6.
I will also include some
general information regarding JRA.
Although this
information is geared towards families
predominately, but not limited to, residing in the Deer Valley School District of
Arizona, there may be similar programs and guidelines
within your own city or state.
Information will be
provided about some basic and alternative programs that may be available.
I will continuously collaborate with friends and therapists about
highly recommended resources that you may wish to explore. You
certainly do not need to travel along aimlessly. Many of us have
already "been there" and know a few shortcuts. Perhaps,
with some new information you will feel more empowered and hopeful.
The faster you become aware of community resources and available
choices, the better your child's outcome may be.
Intervention, preferably before the age
of 6, can really make a difference!
I hope that
this website will assist you in planning for your child's future.
Be your child's advocate!
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Our "Special
Needs" Story

If it had not been for the chance
encounter with a speech therapist at a baseball game, we would not have been informed
about the wonderful free
developmental preschool screenings
available through the Deer Valley Unified School District. Through
the screenings, our daughter's multiple
needs were recognized. She was determined to have speech and
developmental delays. This was evidenced by her
lack of communication skills and high frustration level. She was
extremely shy and displayed some
Sensory Integration
Disorder
characteristics. We provided her with private speech
and occupational therapies, along with music therapy. She is followed
closely by physicians to monitor her visual and hearing needs. At this time, some learning disabilities are
also being addressed.
Our daughter attended developmental
preschools and currently is placed in a speech-disorder classroom where she continues
receiving speech and occupational therapies. These classroom settings have been
beneficial because of her Individualized Education Program
(IEP)
which assures that she is reaching her potential grade -level skills but at a
manageable pace. The instructor has a background in special education and works
closely with several aides. Some of her classrooms have "typical peers"
which serve as wonderful role models. We consider all of the teachers, therapists,
and physicians our "team"!
Almost all of what we have learned and
provided for our daughter has come from the input of other parents who have "been there"
and openly shared with us. We quickly
found out that there was not a simple book or set of guidelines offering
suggestions about intervention and the planning of services for our child.
Instead, we spoke with these other parents and were guided by our
professional "team". From them, we
have learned
about invaluable resources such as
developmental preschool
screenings, speech/occupational/physical therapy, reliable physicians, specialized
school programs, the IEP process, applying for
State & Federally
funded services, websites, workshops, and more!
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Our
"Arthritis" Story

Our daughter was a typical, active 5
year old. She had been jumping on a friend's trampoline
one day and later complained of
unusual ankle pain. Later
that evening, she
had to be carried upstairs to bed. The next morning, she had
joint stiffness and difficulty getting out of bed. As
the days continued, her pain would seem to
fluctuate. It would lessen during the afternoon but would return again
at bedtime or the next morning. We attributed her discomfort to
the trampoline and wondered if she was being overdramatic.
We would "spy" on her to see how she was behaving
when out of our sight. During her most
severe moments, she would crawl on the floor to get to the bathroom.
She would grasp the furniture and walls in an
attempt to get across the room to her toys. More
and more she would cry and beg to be
carried. My heart broke one morning when I went to wake her up
for school and found her sobbing. She had
laid in bed all night having to go to the bathroom.
She was too sore to turn herself over and couldn't get out of
bed to relieve herself (we never heard her
little voice crying for help).
Within a week, she
was spiking
high fevers
and developed a rash which would spontaneously appear and disappear in a cyclic fashion. These
symptoms tended to occur at bedtime and in the
morning. Since the fevers, rash , and joint pain would disappear by the time we got to
the pediatrician, it was difficult to diagnose. We even took photographs of the rash
and showed it to the doctor. Our daughter was quickly referred to a
rheumatologist and diagnosed with
systemic juvenile
rheumatoid arthritis. She was
treated aggressively with medications such as
anti-inflammatories, steroids
and even injections of Methotrexate (low dose chemotherapy drug) and
Enbrel (anti tumor necrosis factor),
to name a few.
Our
daughter still experiences occasional set-backs but has come a long way
over the past 7 years. We are
pleased that she frequently rides
her bike or walks to school.
She has taken piano
lessons and is on a basketball team.
Most days, she is able to sit on the floor while playing with
toys. Her schedule
still includes routine bloodwork,
frequent doctor follow-ups, and many medications, but she appears happier
and continues to remain as active
as possible. The great news is that her early diagnosis and
swift intervention has
thus far afforded her damage-free joints!
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Disclaimer
Information on this website comes only
from my personal experiences. If you find information in error, please contact me.
If I have accidentally published any of your copyrighted material, please let
me know. I will gladly seek proper permission for publication or have it removed.
Dawn Kurbat,
BSN